Wedding season is officially here, and with it comes the annual question every woman knows too well: what am I going to wear? You want to look great, stay appropriate, and not melt in the heat — while also absolutely not upstaging the couple. No pressure.
Here's your cheat sheet, broken down by vibe.
First, Read the Dress Code Clues
Before you open your closet, look at the invitation. "Garden party" means floral and breezy. "Cocktail attire" means a midi dress or a polished suit. "Black tie" means floor-length or a very formal cocktail look. "Casual" means you have more freedom — but still, show up looking intentional.
For the Outdoor Garden or Backyard Wedding
This is the sweet spot for a wrap dress. You want something that moves beautifully, won't overheat you, and looks effortless in photos. Florals, soft prints, or solid jewel tones all work perfectly. The Wrap Dress at RL's Joint ($58) is elegant enough to be wedding-appropriate and comfortable enough for an afternoon in the heat. Pair with strappy heeled sandals and you're done.
For the Beach or Destination Wedding
Breathable fabric is non-negotiable. A linen or cotton dress, a flowy midi, or even elevated separates work here. The Everyday Linen Set ($72) dressed up with metallic sandals and gold jewelry reads polished and intentional without looking like you tried too hard. Bonus: linen is practically made for coastal humidity.
For the Rooftop or Urban Cocktail Wedding
This is the moment for wide-leg trousers. A pair of elegant wide-leg pants with a silk or satin blouse is a refreshing alternative to another midi dress — and it photographs beautifully. The Relaxed Wide-Leg Pant ($65) in a neutral tone paired with a dressy top hits the cocktail dress code without looking like everyone else in the room.
The Colors to Wear (and Avoid)
Classic etiquette says skip all-white (that's the bride's moment). Beyond that, you have enormous freedom. Dusty rose, sage green, cornflower blue, marigold, terracotta — all beautiful for summer. Avoid anything that reads too casual and you're in good shape.
Accessories That Elevate Any Wedding Look
A delicate clutch, a strappy heel or elegant flat sandal, and one standout piece of jewelry is really all you need. Hair up or half-up keeps you cool and polished when the temperature rises.
One Last Rule
Be comfortable. If you're tugging at your hem, squeezing into something two sizes too small, or wearing shoes you can't walk in — the outfit isn't working. The best-dressed guest at any wedding is the one who looks like she's having a great time, not like she's suffering for fashion.
Shop summer wedding guest looks at RL's Joint — because you deserve to feel amazing at every celebration.